It's 3:26 in the morning while I'm writing this. I'm semi-drunk, so forgive me for all my grammar errors. But I had a reason to get drunk.
I feel like my heart and mind are about to explode.
I have a total mess in my mind, I feel such an anger towards the world, fate or Allmighty, that I think I could break my arm by banging it onto the wall.
A little background to make the whole story understandable.
Three years ago I've met an interesting girl on the net. We chatted, I found we had lot in common, so I offered her that we'd meet up IRL. She was 14. Now, she's 17. We met up, we chatted more, we had a fantastic day. Then we got back online, and another meeting, you know the deal. After a year or so I had the pleasure to call her my best female friend even though she was much younger. It's tough to explain how we affected on each other and how our relationship, our friendship flourished.
To put it simply - after a while I was sure that I'd give my fuckin' miserable life for hers.
And yesterday I think I've got somehow into that position.
About 16:00 o'clock I've got a call from her. I heard a cry. A sobbing.
She told me her mother died.
Now, you may think it's not a big deal for one to loose his parent. Well, with her family thing is different.
Few months after she was born, her scumbag son-of-the-bitch father left her mother and her. Where he went - nobody knew. So, she was raised by her mother with a great deal of help of her mother's parents. Father's parents were dead even before she was born. And her mother's parents both died in recent years.
So, situation looks like that - girl is 17, she lost her mother, she has no one to take care of her besides some relatives (aunt, as far as I know) that live in Canada. In conclusion - she'll most probably put in a orphanage for a year and then, when she'll turn 18, she'll get kicked out.
Now, Polish law is ill. It's sick beond any measure that exists in that rotten world. One year is too small ammount of time for an institution like orphanage to gater enough sources to give a person a kickstart to an adult life. So, she'll be left on her own.
When I heard that news I've immediately added those facts I know to an one piece and I cried. I don't cry over a coffin, because the deceased are in better world, but I cry over the ones that they've left behind.
A person that I have a joy and pride to call my best friend is left with no roof over her head and no ground to walk on.
Her mother was still paying off a credit for an ap. she bought. The bank (aka. the lowlife scumbags) will most probably take the ap. for their own to "level the debt". Thus, she'll get nothing from her deceased mother. Not even a place to live.
We arranged a meeting today at 16:00 o'clock to talk, like friends do. She's alone in her ap., probably with some social-service worker. When I've heard that news I got out into the city to get myself drunk, because the tension was killing me. My thoughts were with her all the time. I drank two bottles of whisky and I still have this fucking pain clutching my chest. I want to kill someone, I cursed the god if he's out there.
I feel so fucking helpless.
And I'm afraid what I'll her from her, I don't have any idea what I'll have to say for her.
As I said, I have a chance to give a chunk of my life to help her.
I could adopt her.
But then again - our beautiful and logical law is in the way. It's nearly 100% impossible for a man to adopt a child and - god forbid - a female one. It's not a difference if he's rich or poor or if the child is old or young. "Miracles" like that don't happen in our beautiful country. And then we have taxes, childcare controls, in other words - money. Lot's of money and patience for a foster parents. That's the reason why our orphanges are filled with kids like a can of herrings.
I don't know, seriously. I have both of my hands, legs and brain but I can't find a way to help her.
I'm going to sleep, if I'll have the convenience to find it, and later, after I'll talk with her (wich I'm sure won't be an easy talk) I'll have to think once again.
Because I'm not gonna let this end like the way it's looking to be. I love her too much to let it slide.
Goodnight to you all and once again sorry for my grammar and tons of rambling.
I feel like my heart and mind are about to explode.
I have a total mess in my mind, I feel such an anger towards the world, fate or Allmighty, that I think I could break my arm by banging it onto the wall.
A little background to make the whole story understandable.
Three years ago I've met an interesting girl on the net. We chatted, I found we had lot in common, so I offered her that we'd meet up IRL. She was 14. Now, she's 17. We met up, we chatted more, we had a fantastic day. Then we got back online, and another meeting, you know the deal. After a year or so I had the pleasure to call her my best female friend even though she was much younger. It's tough to explain how we affected on each other and how our relationship, our friendship flourished.
To put it simply - after a while I was sure that I'd give my fuckin' miserable life for hers.
And yesterday I think I've got somehow into that position.
About 16:00 o'clock I've got a call from her. I heard a cry. A sobbing.
She told me her mother died.
Now, you may think it's not a big deal for one to loose his parent. Well, with her family thing is different.
Few months after she was born, her scumbag son-of-the-bitch father left her mother and her. Where he went - nobody knew. So, she was raised by her mother with a great deal of help of her mother's parents. Father's parents were dead even before she was born. And her mother's parents both died in recent years.
So, situation looks like that - girl is 17, she lost her mother, she has no one to take care of her besides some relatives (aunt, as far as I know) that live in Canada. In conclusion - she'll most probably put in a orphanage for a year and then, when she'll turn 18, she'll get kicked out.
Now, Polish law is ill. It's sick beond any measure that exists in that rotten world. One year is too small ammount of time for an institution like orphanage to gater enough sources to give a person a kickstart to an adult life. So, she'll be left on her own.
When I heard that news I've immediately added those facts I know to an one piece and I cried. I don't cry over a coffin, because the deceased are in better world, but I cry over the ones that they've left behind.
A person that I have a joy and pride to call my best friend is left with no roof over her head and no ground to walk on.
Her mother was still paying off a credit for an ap. she bought. The bank (aka. the lowlife scumbags) will most probably take the ap. for their own to "level the debt". Thus, she'll get nothing from her deceased mother. Not even a place to live.
We arranged a meeting today at 16:00 o'clock to talk, like friends do. She's alone in her ap., probably with some social-service worker. When I've heard that news I got out into the city to get myself drunk, because the tension was killing me. My thoughts were with her all the time. I drank two bottles of whisky and I still have this fucking pain clutching my chest. I want to kill someone, I cursed the god if he's out there.
I feel so fucking helpless.
And I'm afraid what I'll her from her, I don't have any idea what I'll have to say for her.
As I said, I have a chance to give a chunk of my life to help her.
I could adopt her.
But then again - our beautiful and logical law is in the way. It's nearly 100% impossible for a man to adopt a child and - god forbid - a female one. It's not a difference if he's rich or poor or if the child is old or young. "Miracles" like that don't happen in our beautiful country. And then we have taxes, childcare controls, in other words - money. Lot's of money and patience for a foster parents. That's the reason why our orphanges are filled with kids like a can of herrings.
I don't know, seriously. I have both of my hands, legs and brain but I can't find a way to help her.
I'm going to sleep, if I'll have the convenience to find it, and later, after I'll talk with her (wich I'm sure won't be an easy talk) I'll have to think once again.
Because I'm not gonna let this end like the way it's looking to be. I love her too much to let it slide.
Goodnight to you all and once again sorry for my grammar and tons of rambling.